I ain't the only one who has to adjust. After living with a deaf hubby for 25+ years, my wife has had to learn to be aware of the noise she makes as much as I'm learning how much noise I make. I get instant feedback (ouch!). Her feedback is coming from me. Which creates tension. LOL... But so it goes (I say as I grit my teeth as she's mindlessly half-singing to herself with her headphones on while doing some work...).